SEEK THE LIGHT

Every morning, I wake up and feel the coolness of the day happen. Sun is about to rise I could see rays tearing the darkness. Just then I try to stretch my body with spreading hands, opening my mouth wide, and fight with myself to get up and go to perform Namaz. Accidentally I lose, but more often I win. Now the battle begins with a mind that I should start my new day with laughter and happiness or recollect the past fatigues and cry for some moments. I lose more often because of not seeking the light inside and accidentally I win because I feel grateful to God for a new day with new opportunities.

I think It is a matter of holding thoughts firmly. My thoughts are directly connected to my habits. And my habits are formed by my desires and wishes. Since there are some good ones and bad ones too, I keep the one which is stronger and attached to the most recent experience. I feel so good if I have held a good one and bad if I have held a bad one. This is how my mind deals with me and surely with everyone.

Our eyes are the light of our bodies. If our eyes are open, we could see everything around us. If not, we cannot. So, the light I try to seek is the way of God, which is indeed a straight path, away from all evil of worldly goods and people. I see this world a dark and thorny place, so I cut off as I am thousands of miles away. When I say I cut off I mean I am no-more sad and gloomy. I have sought God's grace. I feel he is within me. Once I move towards God, He opens all the doors of unconditional happiness and peace.

To seek light is to surrender yourself to God. It is to accord your life as God wants you to be. I also seek this light when I serve humanity.

How do you seek this light?

DON’T ABANDON YOURSELF

The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. You can not create respect around you unless you respect yourself. You are thoroughly a good person to live a wonderful life. You deserve the best. You can create what you can imagine for yourself. Your brain has all the powers to visualize the wonders to happen for you. You are an extraordinary human being.

Life is a sailing boat on earth you need to learn to drive your boat so well that not a single storm may drown you. You have got to teach yourself that you are going to be peaceful in any situation and be very creative to shoot the negativity. There are rough and tough times but you are supposed to be stagnant and face like a mighty rock to stand out against them and let not them enter in you to break you.

The fire of abandonment starts from torturing a man inside of you. When you are worried about the people who are neglecting you all the time. No doubt, they might be very special to you but the fact is you are treading a track over you. It happens when you make yourself available for them every second. You need love and compassion but sometimes you’re knocking at the wrong door that you had better avoid and move on.

You are supposed to take care of yourself when you feel there’s no other way. when you become dependent, you certainly get depressed. Therefore, you must have priorities in life. And taking care of yourself must be the first priority. You should love your life and feed it the best as much as you can. No matter what comes on the way, you’re destined to live a prosperous life.

TAKING ONE'S OWN LIFE

I was stricken with mental and emotional disturbance when I heard an Indian actor Sushant Sharma has committed suicide. I was at the steep of my wonder how he could do this.  It takes a world amount of courage to hang oneself as he has done.  I heard people saying it cowardice yet to take one's life is not a small step, this is to be at the brink of depression which is always a swing of danger.

Times a man might be so angry that he could break someone or things around instead of taking one's own life.  But the matter of fact is that it happens when you love someone the most you never want that person to be hurt by your anger. So, you hurt yourself. You kill yourself. I think that taking one's own life is to hurt people much more you love and the people who love you too. 

My purpose to write this blog was to tell you that this is thought-provoking for other people and to take one's own life is never a solution to your problems. I am also depressed there are intermittent heartbreaks in everyone's life. We all have to face challenges in our lives. But it doesn't mean that you are going to murder yourself. Once, my mentor, JUDY MARLENE MANEDERO told me that life is like the seasons of the weather you have to face all the seasons of the weather.

This is really a very pumped situation. You may either fall in anxiety and depression or come up with plenty of courage to fight back with all the chaos in life. I think here we need a guide of the best friend who is possibly going to drive out of such feelings and tempt you to take the right decision.  When you are in this mess before you mess up with your life, do dial to your best friend. 

What do you do when you are depressed?

LEARN TO SAY NO

Saying yes is so facile, but to fulfill what is behind yes is so delicate. It is not robotic that we accept so quickly as people ask to do something for them. There is a sympathetic feeling that we have for people to see them happy and out of any problem. Here, I am going to talk about saying No when you are on the way to fulfill your dreams when you have to fight yourself and say No to things that lead you away or halt you from the right direction. There are lots of things that make us stray while we are working on our dreams.

Say No to mobile notifications. I see people are checking it every time when their mobile phone rings. Mobile is the only thing that always remains with you. You're sleeping or awake, walking, or be in a meeting, it always alerts you of your stories. So keep it off or away when you are heading at your work.

Say No to wander while you are using Facebook or other social networks. Sometimes people are so glued to it that they keep watching things one after the other and which are of no importance. So, their time is completely wasted. Once they are finished watching all they could watch, they feel tired and their eyes are gone red and their mind is hardly ready to do anything. After being mentally tired they sleep and become very lazy physically.

Say No to PUBG and other games. Youngsters are terribly connected with this and such games. And their minds are sadly being trained to harm neighbors and people around them. They are generating negative thoughts, anxiety, and hatred in their mind. In fact, they are fueling themselves.

Say No to friends. I know it is hard to say no to friends but to be out of discipline and follow the desires may cause you late and trouble to reach your destination. When you're at work or studying, you need to keep the distance from your friends.

There are many other distractions, you may come across. But if you learn to fight with them, you will see a successful person in you very soon.

STOP USING MOBILE STUPIDLY.

To do good is good, to do great is better. Moreover, to do badly is bad, but using mobile stupidly is really the worst.

I am an unknown writer who writes about what I look around and experience things. I try to make stupid experiences and learn from them. You see the world is in the pandemic situation due to coronavirus. However, my dear friends Pakistanis are at their full to enjoy it. On the other hand, people, belonging to other countries are upset and mourn over the conditions.

When I look at my friends, they are using mobile every time because they do not have other things to do at all. Their bags are full of dust and have no knowledge of their books. So what do they do? Sit on a sofa, having headphones on their head, so focused looking into their mobile screen for long hours at a stretch, barely stirring a bit. When they need to drink water, they call a younger brother or someone in the same room to fetch a glass of water. Sometimes they call an empty chair to do it for them because they could see someone on an empty chair but in fact, there is no one and they feel like someone is on that chair we may order to get what we want in our hands.

Some of my dear friends are using Whatsapp, chatting to each other, and trying to scold one another in-group chats for the whole day long. Now I want you to look at a super high-level WhatsApp-user, who watches one status every other second. Putting his finger on-screen holding it and trying to understand what the status means and reading it for many hundred times. Yet come up to zero-understanding.

I am not still over, yet to tell some discoveries that my friends have suggested to me some of the apps (Meet me, Yalla, Mico, etc) which has rooms of stupid people and all the time free people, talking generally as they have thousands of hours left. Oh good God! I could see a world of people they just say thanks to coming into their room and compel us to listen to their shitty talks and arguments.

Here the time comes to get a lesson, using mobile is okay, but being such a mad leads us to a total waste of time and lose all that we got from our teachers in institutions. I see them locked but we may have a bit of knowledge from YouTube and other useful and knowledgeable websites.

CRUEL

A few Times, life hands you to cruel!

You start acting like a dual,

The thought takes always to sides,

Either adverse or in favor,

Now, you go through both sides,

Here, Satan surely drives,

Things do go wrong,

Endurance breaks all the bones,

As you lose your temper,

And call him an accuser,

The fight for the rights begins,

In last, the winner wins,

If you could resist the pain,

From any retort decision, you abstain,

The matter might come to an end.